Lack of Focus or Hyper Focus

Reckless Driving Leading to Accidents

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Signs of Adult ADHD

ADHD is thought to affect around 5% of children in US, and about half of them will continue to experience symptoms into adulthood. According to CDC, the actual number may be higher, as the symptoms of adult ADHD are often subtle and therefore many people may not be diagnosed.

Receiving a diagnosis and following a treatment plan is important, as untreated ADHD can lead to many physical and emotional problems that affect one’s social life, relationships and work.

Below are 8 signs that may suggest you have ADHD. If you experience these signs and they have a significant impact on your day-to-day life, see a doctor to discuss whether you may have this condition.

1. Reckless Driving Leading to Accidents

An adult with ADHD is four times more likely to be involved in a car accident, to receive a speeding ticket and to run a stop sign, according to statistics. They also drive without checking if they have enough gas more often, and are therefore more likely to run out of gas in the middle of the road.

Some tips to avoid these issues:

  • Get into the habit of checking the gauge each time you start your car to see if your have enough gas.
  • Don’t drive if you’ve had anything to drink
  • Avoid distractions while driving: turn off the radio and don’t use your cell phone
  • Avoid driving when it’s not necessary – take a walk to the grocery store, use public transportation, or consider car-pooling for the commute to work.
  • Always wear a seatbelt

Lack of Focus or Hyper Focus

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2. Lack of Focus or Hyper Focus

For people with ADHD, lack of focus is more than just having trouble paying attention. ADHDers are easily distracted (hence the higher rate of car accidents) and tend to have a hard time listening to others, paying attention to details and completing tasks and projects at work.

On the opposite site, some people will experience hyperfocus. In this case, they may be so focused on one task that they will ignore anything else around them, easily losing track of time.

Tips for these issues:

  • Make a to do list, prioritize the items on it, and stick to a schedule /plan
  • Avoid distractions by doing only one thing at a time – don’t attempt to multitask.
  • Set up specific time to spend time with your family (i.e. dinner, weekend trips)

Impulsivity and Angry Outburst

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3. Impulsivity and Angry Outbursts

Impulsivity can present in different ways. One person may constantly interrupt others, while another person will display inappropriate behavior in social settings. You may act or talk without thinking of the consequences – for example, going shopping and spending more than you can afford. Impulsivity can also be expressed as anger because you’re unable to control your emotions. Anger if often triggered by minor things and it quickly fades away.

Tips for dealing with impulsivity and angry outbursts:

  • Take a few deep breaths before talking or arguing.
  • Learn mindfulness, a technique that helps you focus on your thoughts, feelings, emotions and urges during an episode of impulsivity.

Marital/Relationship Problems

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4. Marital/Relationship Problems

Relationship problems occur for a few reasons. A person with ADHD may be easily distracted, hyper focused on a certain task and ignoring their partner, be impulsive or angry, have problems with communication due to poor listening and social skills, and/or be unable to keep promises or commitments. The partner of a person with ADHD has to be aware of these possible problems and their causes and learn how to cope.

Individual and couple therapy can be very beneficial to help the partner with ADHD to have a better insight into their symptoms and how to cope with them, and to help the partner without ADHD to understand how ADHD works and not feel neglected in the relationship.

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Low Self-Esteem

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5. Low Self-Esteem

ADHDers tend to be overly critical of themselves, leading to low self-esteem and poor self-image. This happens because they are aware of their inability to focus and concentrate, past failures and underachievements.

Tips for dealing with poor self-image and self-esteem:

  • Challenge negative thoughts and take action; ask yourself why you got bored or why you didn’t finish a task. Is there a solution for the problem?
  • Keep a journal with short and long-term goals.
  • Reward yourself for any achievement, even if it seems small.

Inability to Relax, Restlessness

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6. Inability to Relax, Restlessness

This issue is the equivalent of hyperactivity associated with ADHD in children. Adults feel restless, unable to relax, extremely tense or “on edge.”
Engaginh in calming, relaxing activities such as yoga, tai chi, and muscle relaxation, guided imagery, relaxing music, deep breathing and exercise can help.

Disorganization and Procrastination

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7. Disorganization and Procrastination

Disorganization and procrastination can cause all kinds of problems at work and at home. Postponing a project or missing a deadline at work, forgetting about appointments, household chores or paying bills are just a few examples.

Always Late

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8. Always Late

In addition to having trouble organizing and prioritizing day-to-day activities and being easily distracted, people with ADHD tend to underestimate how much time it will take to complete a task. On top of that, they may lack motivation to go to work or participate to an event because of poor self-image. These issues often add up to chronic lateness.

Tips to avoid running late:

  • Set your watch 30 minutes fast.
  • Aim to arrive early – if a meeting is at 10 a.m., plan to be there by 9:45 a.m.
  • Create a daily plan using a calendar, organizer or an app, with everything you need to do for the day.
  • Set a time limit for each task and stick to it.

Read more about ADHD in adults over at NewLifeOutlook.

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